Act 1 Scene 3 helps us to contextualise the relationship that Juliet may have with her parents. As a fourteen-year-old girl, she is visited in her chamber by her mother, to be presented with the opportunity for marriage. Her mother, distant and somewhat calculating, presents this as an opportunity for increased wealth and to ensure her daughter becomes one of the ladies of esteem’ who are ‘made already mothers’ among the Veronese elite. Juliet’s mother, with her blunt interrogatives, such as: ‘Tell me... How stands your disposition to be married?’ and ‘What say you, can you love the gentleman?’, is presented by Shakespeare as a stark contrast to the warm, effusiveness of the Nurse, whose enthusiasm for the subject is clear, shown when she exclaims ‘A man, young lady! Lady, such a man!’ Likewise, Lady Capulet’s impatience with the Nurse is evident when she says, ‘I pray thee hold thy peace’ and seems to stem from the fact that the Nurse is full of anecdotes about her beloved Juliet and her childhood, something Lady Capulet clearly does not share. We are therefore encouraged to see that in wealthy Veronese society, the notion of parenting is one of a more distant relationship. Though both Capulet and Lady Capulet declare their love for Juliet when she is supposed dead in Act IV, we certainly are lead to question this, through their actions and attitudes at other times in the play.In the extract, Lady Capulet uses elaborate language to describe Paris. She uses the metaphor of a 'precious book'; suggesting Juliet will be the 'cover' that this 'unbound lover' lacks. Though seemingly romantic, this seems far away from the reality of marrying a virtual stranger, selected by Juliet's father. Lady Capulet emphasises two positive features about Paris: his looks and his wealth. She suggests he has been drawn with, 'beauty's pen' and that Juliet might 'share all that he doth possess'. Again, this helps us to see the values that shaped elite Veronese society, and suggests that Lady Capulet's idea of what real love might be is under question. Capulet initially speaks of Juliet in gentle terms as 'the hopeful lady of my earth', and insists it will be another two years before Juliet should be wed. However, the violent actions of Act II seem to galvanise Capulet, and Tybalt's death seems to encourage him.to hastily arrange Juliet’s marriage to Paris. Perhaps he fears for his family’s reputation against these violent outbursts and seeks to secure Juliet’s marriage immediately. His position as the family patriarch leads him to believe Juliet will consider this arrangement as ‘a sudden day of joy.’ His fury at her refusal leads to him addressing Juliet as ‘a wretched puling fool,’ ‘a whining mammet’ with disparaging noun phrases. Rather than as a daughter, he views Juliet as a possession, declaring ‘I’ll give you to my friend.’ This is compounded by Lady Capulet’s curt, monosyllabic rejection, ‘I have done with thee.’ Shakespeare seems to contrast the Capulets with the more rarely seen Montagues, whose concern for their son and his sensitive moods, suggests their more genuine love for him. Indeed, we are told at the end of the play that Lady Montague has died of grief, so distressed was she by Romeo’s banishment. Montague engages Benvolio’s help to ‘learn from whence his sorrows grow’ and we are led to question why Romeo did not seek the advice of these concerned parents, rather than that of Friar Laurence, when he discovered his love for Juliet. Though presenting us with a picture of parenting in wealthy Veronese society, Shakespeare conveys how young adults may see their parents as a potential hurdle to their happiness and how some parents feel that they must exert complete control over their children. The added backdrop of the feud and the conventions of the society itself add to the potential for mistrust and tragedy within these family relationships.